Implications for partners of persons who initiate a significant, intentional, lifestyle change

grantor: University of TorontoThe purpose of this study was to examine the implications of significant, intentional, lifestyle change for the partners of persons initiating the change. This study focused exclusively on partners of persons who intentionally chose to reside full-time aboard a boat (liveaboard lifestyle) as an alternative to a land-based lifestyle. Interviews were conducted with 41 individuals, each of whom was experiencing one of six specific phases of implementing their lifestyle change. Participants were interviewed and tracked over a two year period from January 1995 to January 1997. All participants completed pre-interview questionnaires; an interview schedule was then administered in person, over the telephone, or in some instances, in writing. Subsequent to the major interview, participants provided follow-up data in written format. Factors which contributed to the non-initiating partners' derived benefits from the change included: an altered sense of independence; equal partnership in the change; and the quality of their relationship with their partners. Non-initiating partners who experienced the evolution of the proposed change from their partner's plan to 'our' plan, reported greater benefits and more derived happiness from the change than those who believed the proposed change remained solely their partners. Prior sailing experience and initial reactions to the proposed change were not determinants of benefits derived. The primary motivations to make the lifestyle change were the lure of travel and adventure, and the opportunity for self-growth and personal achievement. Several were motivated by a compelling need to have their partners 'live their dream'. The vast majority of study participants reported that the very act of supporting their partners dream enriched and enhanced their own lives in ways they had not previously imagined. The findings related to the non-initiating partners motivation to support his or her partner's proposed change may provide insight for those contemplating a similar lifestyle change. The factors that precipitated the convergence of a change that was externally imposed, to one that became chosen, planned for, and eventually achieved, has implications for couples contemplating making a similar significant lifestyle change as well as for those professionals who are engaged to assist potential change-makers.Ed.D