Sikap Asertif Dan Peran Keluarga Terhadap Anak

Assertiveness is a behavior of a person to be able to express opinions, desires,feelings and beliefs to the others directly, honestly and transparently. Assertiveness is not adefault behavior but it can be learned through the environment. The family is the primaryenvironment first known by a child. Therefore the family is obliged to provide good care ofa child. With the caring and education in the family a child will develop assertivenessoptimally

Pengentasan Permasalahan Siswa Dengan Pendekatan Bimbingan Dan Konseling Islami (Studi Kasus Di Madrasah Aliyah Negeri Kabupaten Banyumas)

The reason of implementation of counseling at school is to help students solving their problems. So that, students learning can be optimized. Several approaches that are often used in school counselors in helping students to solve problems often can not resolve the problems without delay. This is because the counselor is less to understand the character of the students in depth. Guidance and counseling Islam as alternative approaches that can be used to help solve the problems of students, especially students in MAN Kab. Banyumas all Muslim. So the model of Islamic Guidance and counseling is considered very appropriately carried out at MAN Kab. Banyumas, because this approach is in accordance with the norms implemented in the schools. The most fundamental goal of this approach is to help people in realizing himself to be fully human so they able to achieve happiness in this world and in the hereafter. Dasar pemikiran penyelenggaraan konseling di sekolah adalah membantu terentaskannya semua permasalahan siswa. Sehingga siswa dalam belajar bisa lebih optimal. Beberapa pendekatan yang sering digunakan konselor di sekolah dalam membantu memecahkan permasalahan siswa seringkali belum bisa menyelesaikan permasalahan secara tuntas. Hal ini dikarenakan konselor kurang begitu memahami karakter dari siswa secara mendalam. Bimbingan dan konseling Islam sebagai alternatif pendekatan yang bisa digunakan untuk membantu menyelesaikan permasalahan siswa, terlebih siswa di MAN Kab. Banyumas semuanya muslim. Sehingga model bimbingan dan konseling Islam ini dirasa sangat tepat dilaksanakan di MAN Kab. Banyumas, dikarenakan pendekatan ini sesuai dengan norma-norma yang keseharian dilaksanakan di sekolah-sekolah tersebut. Tujuan yang pa ling pokok dari pendekatan ini adalah membantu individu dalam mewujudkan dirinya menjadi manusia seutuhnya yang mampu meraih kebahagiaan di dunia dan di akhirat