Motivation is given for trying a theory of gravity with a preferred reference
frame (``ether'' for short). One such theory is summarized, that is a scalar
bimetric theory. Dynamics is governed by an extension of Newton's second law.
In the static case, geodesic motion is recovered together with Newton's
attraction field. In the static spherical case, Schwarzschild's metric is got.
An asymptotic scheme of post-Minkowskian (PM) approximation is built by
associating a conceptual family of systems with the given weakly-gravitating
system. It is more general than the post-Newtonian scheme in that the velocity
may be comparable with c. This allows to justify why the 0PM approximation of
the energy rate may be equated to the rate of the Newtonian energy, as is
usually done. At the 0PM approximation of this theory, an isolated system loses
energy by quadrupole radiation, without any monopole or dipole term. It seems
plausible that the observations on binary pulsars (the pulse data) could be
nicely fitted with a timing model based on this theory.Comment: Text of a talk given at the 4th Conf. on Physics Beyond the Standard
Model, Tegernsee, June 2003, submitted to the Proceedings (H. V.
Klapdor-Kleingrothaus, ed.