The hydraulic damper has a great sense for impact machine to extend life and improve the environmental performance. The objective of this paper is to provide a systematic investigation to design or evaluation of a hydraulic damper used in the impact machine. A novel hydraulic damper using guiding sleeve to enlarge buffer chamber area is designed and manufactured by ingenious tactics. The performance of a prototype hydraulic damper is acquired by the test. A nonlinear thermal-hydraulic model for the hydraulic damper is presented by analyzing the internal fluid dynamic phenomenon and heat transfer with respect to the prototype. Comparisons between test data and simulation result confirm the validity of the thermal-hydraulic model. In the meantime, evaluation of the importance of some key factors using the model for designing is discussed. It shows the influence of orifice diameter, inner diameter of buffer chamber and setting pressure of the relief valve to hydraulic damper characteristics with large flow, which gives a theoretical basis to design and optimize hydraulic damper with large flow for impact machine