We present detailed luminosity profiles of the young massive clusters M82-F,
NGC 1569-A, and NGC 1705-1 which show significant departures from equilibrium
(King and EFF) profiles. We compare these profiles with those from N-body
simulations of clusters which have undergone the rapid removal of a significant
fraction of their mass due to gas expulsion. We show that the observations and
simulations agree very well with each other suggesting that these young
clusters are undergoing violent relaxation and are also losing a significant
fraction of their stellar mass. That these clusters are not in equilibrium can
explain the discrepant mass-to-light ratios observed in many young clusters
with respect to simple stellar population models without resorting to
non-standard initial stellar mass functions as claimed for M82-F and NGC
1705-1. We also discuss the effect of rapid gas removal on the complete
disruption of a large fraction of young massive clusters (``infant
mortality''). Finally we note that even bound clusters may lose >50% of their
initial stellar mass due to rapid gas loss (``infant weight-loss'').Comment: 6 pages, 3 figures, MNRAS letters, accepte