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Beaumont, EA

Sisson-Curbishley, NI

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18 April 2020 Healthcare Counselling and Psychotherapy Journal xTake care  of yourself‘Techniques that encourage self-reflection can help student practitioners to promote self-care’including soothing rhythm breathing (SRB), which activates the parasympathetic nervous system, thereby reducing any physiological excitement by lowering heart and respiratory rates. Other interventions focused on memory (thinking of times when we’ve felt cared for), mindfulness, compassionate letter writing, imaginal interventions (generating a compassionate other and creating a special, calm, peaceful place in the mind’s eye) and putting together a compassionate kit bag. As part of the research project, Noah, one  of the students on the MSc Advanced Counselling and Psychotherapy course, kept a journal of his compassionate mind journey. Noah’s storyI worked in the ambulance service for 13 years and was often called to assist people in distressing and traumatic situations. I was good at making other people feel better, by showing them compassion, no matter who they were or what they had done. I could also, occasionally, accept compassion from others. But if I was good at showing and sometimes accepting compassion, I was not necessarily adept at self-compassion, at directing kindness towards myself – and I had little idea of how it could benefit me or my practice. At the end of a tough shift, I would often be left with ‘what ifs’ and ‘should haves’. My crew mate and I were good at supporting each other. However, the mutual support did not always help to soften our self-criticism or dispel our internalised shame. I knew the power of compassion and was able to extend it to others, but it was much harder impact of the module on the students’ levels of self-compassion, self-reflection, self-practice and self-criticism. The main aims of the study were to:•  evaluate the impact of self-reflection, self-compassion, self-criticism and self-practice on students and their  work with clients •  explore whether compassionate mind training (CMT) provides students with some of the self-care strategies needed  to face organisational, placement and academic demands. Whether you are a qualified practitioner  or a trainee, working with people who are emotionally distressed can be challenging. As a result of such challenges, practitioners might question their ability, experience fear or anxiety, or feel overwhelmed.1  They might also judge themselves harshly, particularly if they feel they have failed  in their attempt to help their client.2,3The Dalai Lama4 suggests that before individuals can develop genuine compassion for others, they first have to commit to caring for their own wellbeing. Self-care is therefore essential, if practitioners are to avoid emotional overload and personal suffering.5A sample (n=54) study6 of student  cognitive behavioural therapists and counsellors found that higher levels of self-compassion were correlated with lower levels of compassion fatigue and burnout. The study also revealed that higher levels of self-criticism were correlated with symptoms of burnout, compassion fatigue and reduced psychological wellbeing. Techniques and interventions that encourage self-reflection and self-practice can help student practitioners to cultivate self-compassion and promote self-care.7–9 In 2019, I (Elaine) therefore decided to offer an optional, compassion-focused therapy (CFT) module on the MSc in Advanced Counselling and Psychotherapy and the MSc in Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapy courses at the University of Salford. A pre- and post-mixed-methods study of  15 students was conducted to explore the CFT and CMT were developed by  Professor Paul Gilbert10–12 to help people who are severely self-critical and suffer from low mood. CFT integrates fundamentals from evolutionary theory, attachment theory, neuroscience, Buddhist practices, social and developmental theory. It focuses on cultivating affiliative emotions to help regulate threat-processing and social motivational systems. The CFT module involved practising and learning about a number of CMT exercises,13 Mental health practitioners can improve their  effectiveness by practising self-compassion, write  Dr Elaine Beaumont and Noah Sisson-CurbishleyCompassion-focused therapy Healthcare Counselling and Psychotherapy Journal April 2020 19xCompassionate attendingDeveloping sensitivity, sympathy, acceptance and insight into one’s own difficulties through self-reflection and mindfulness Learning to notice and experience physiological and psychological reactions with compassion Developing breathing techniques  (soothing rhythm breathing) that have been associated with positive health outcomes and give a sense of slowing downCompassionate imagery and memoryRecalling times when we have felt compassion for another, when we have received compassion from another and given compassion to ourselves Creating an imaginary calm place in  the mind’s eye that provides a sense of relaxation and peace Imagining and using acting skills  to experience a compassionate self (getting into a role as actors do when  they take on a part)Experiencing compassion as a flow,  which can flow in three ways: •  From other people to us•  From us to other people •  From self to selfCreating a compassionate self,  ideal compassionate other and compassionate teamCompassionate thinkingUsing thought records to explore the role played by self-critical ruminationLearning to take a step back and focus  on what would be helpful from a compassionate perspective, as opposed  to judging and criticising oneself Learning to respond compassionately to the ‘bully within’Thinking about and responding to our multiple selves – the anxious, sad, angry and critical selfCompassionate behaviourCompassionate letter writing, which  aims to help individuals to engage with difficulties and problems by focusing  on being kind, supportive and nurturing, as opposed to being self-criticalCreating a ‘step by step’ approach to cope with trauma symptoms such as avoidanceCreating a compassionate kitbagto internalise it and recognise  the struggles I faced. I left the ambulance service and qualified  as a counsellor many years ago. But my experience in the emergency services, as  well as my personal beliefs and professional practice in the person-centred approach,  led to an interest in CFT. I thought it would  be beneficial to gain a better understanding of compassion and how it motivates and drives us to alleviate suffering in others and ourselves, reducing self-criticism and internalised shame.9–11I found that practising SRB, whether on myself or a client, was enormously helpful.  I felt a deeper interpersonal connection and could empathise on a more profound level.  I also noticed that the person-centred approach’s core conditions of empathy, congruence and unconditional positive regard came much more readily when practising SRB, because I was truly present with the client. The benefit I gained from  SRB was just as pronounced outside the therapeutic space. I felt grounded, rested, focused and more responsive. We were encouraged on the module  to imagine a compassionate other. I brought to mind my mother, although  the compassionate other could be real  or imagined.13 I could clearly hear my mother’s voice telling me that it was OK, that I was doing well. The voice fostered an inner awareness that I was being hard on myself and unnecessarily critical. The exercise not only made me think about my own difficulties, but also about my mother’s struggles. I lost my mother to cancer when I was 12, and knowing that she faced such challenges gave me the inner resolve to be courageous and self-soothe. I consider smell to be one of the most  powerful senses for memory recall and imagery. I have a tester bottle of my mother’s signature scent, and the smell brings me instant comfort and happiness. I put the bottle into my compassionate kit bag.14The compassionate kit bag is an easily accessible, go-to collection of objects that stimulates various senses and helps ground, soothe and restore your self-compassionate response.14 As well as the perfume, my kit bag Take care  of yourselfCompassion-focused therapyTable 1: Key skills of compassion20 April 2020 Healthcare Counselling and Psychotherapy Journal xcontained a phone playlist to calm and empower me. I also curated a photo album on my phone of people who are supportive and compassionate, but have also been through their own struggles.I have integrated CFT into my therapeutic practice. It helps with clients who want something to take away from sessions,  which they can use as a support in between appointments. CFT not only gives my  clients the tools to tolerate their negative experiences, but also the ability to extend compassion to others.The CFT formulation gives the client a framework in which to identify their negative thinking loops, by pinpointing historical, unhelpful influences and the effect on our present lives and the way we relate to others.13 I completed my own formulation with some apprehension about the emotional and cognitive issues it could provoke. However,  it has greatly informed my work with clients.  I create a formulation with my clients in an open, collaborative and empathic way, which gently challenges the client about their understanding of themselves. As a student and practitioner, using CMT has given me an insight into the subtle nuances of employing the techniques with clients, so I can remain present and engaged while simultaneously calling on a deeper level of empathy to connect with and support my clients, and ultimately myself. In conclusion, as an educator and clinician, encouraging students to consider how they would behave, hear, work with, and respond to themselves and others when at their compassionate best can help them to bring self-compassion to their own doubts and self-criticism. Dr Elaine Beaumont is a psychotherapist and lecturer at the University of Salford. Elaine’s research explores the impact of CMT and CFT on people working in the helping professions and on people who have experienced trauma. Elaine is co-author of The Compassionate Mind Workbook: a step-by-step guide to developing your compassionate self. Noah Sisson-Curbishley is a psychotherapist and student at the University of Salford. Noah has a special interest in gender, identity and sexuality. He is currently researching the effects of mobile dating platforms on the mental health of sexual minority men. References1.  Reeves A, Mintz R. The experience of counsellors who work with suicidal clients: an exploratory study. Counselling and Psychotherapy Research Journal 2001; 2: 37–42.2.  Wheeler S, Bowl R, Reeves A. Assessing sk: confrontation or avoidance – what is taught on counsellor training courses? British Journal of Guidance & Counselling 2004; 32(2): 235–247.3.  Beaumont E. A compassionate mind training model for healthcare practitioners and educators. Healthcare Counselling and Psychotherapy Journal 2016; 16(3): 22–27.4.  Dalai Lama, Cutler HC. The art of happiness: a handbook for living. London: Hodder Paperbacks; 1999.5.  Beaumont E, Durkin M, Hollins-Martin CJ, Carson J. Measuring relationships between self-compassion, compassion fatigue, burnout and wellbeing in student counsellors and student cognitive behavioural psychotherapists. Journal of Counselling and Psychotherapy Research 2016; 16(1): 15–23. 6.  Beaumont E, Rayner G, Durkin M, Bowling G. The effects of compassionate mind training on student psychotherapists. 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A step-by-step guide to developing your compassionate self. London: Little Brown Publishers; 2017.14.  Binns A. Compassionate kit bag [Online.]  http://www.alibinns.co.uk/resources/compassionate-kitbag (accessed 23 July 2019).Technique Benefits AwarenessSoothing  rhythm breathing•  Creates therapeutic presence•  Keeps you grounded•  Can be practised in most places•  Creates deeper empathic connection•  Benefits outside therapy room•  Can be difficult initially with mind wandering•  Critical self wants to ‘give-up’, believing it can’t do it if not immediately successful/soothedFormulation •  Very clear and succinct arrangement of feelings/behaviours•  Collaborative•  Reduces blame/shame/ self-criticism with compassionate response •  Can be overwhelming•  Self-critic can create resistanceIdeal compassionate other•  Creates a physical response to a memory/imagined stimulus•  Real sense that you’re not alone•  Recognise the struggles of others •  Some find visualisation difficult – use all senses •  Choose one compassionate other to focus on, rather than wandering to a few•  Someone who has never experienced compassion may find this difficultCompassionate tool kit•  Really personal•  Easily accessible•  Creates an understanding of,  and connection to, the suffering of others•  Can be used as more of a metaphor than literal•  Activate as many senses as possibleCompassion-focused therapyTable 2: Notes from Noah's journey

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