Let A={Aij}i,j∈I, where I is an index set, be a doubly indexed family of matrices, where Aij is ni×nj. For each i∈I, let Vi be an ni-dimensional vector space. We say A is reducible in the coupled sense if there exist subspaces, Ui⊆Vi, with Ui={0} for at least one i∈I, and Ui=Vi for at least one i, such that Aij(Uj)⊆Ui for all i,j. Let B={Bij}i,j∈I also be a doubly indexed family of matrices, where Bij is mi×mj. For each i∈I, let Xi be a matrix of size ni×mi. Suppose AijXj=XiBij for all i,j. We prove versions of Schur\u27s lemma for A,B satisfying coupled irreducibility conditions. We also consider a refinement of Schur\u27s lemma for sets of normal matrices and prove corresponding versions for A,B satisfying coupled normality and coupled irreducibility conditions