Let X be a symmetric random matrix with independent but non-identically
distributed centered Gaussian entries. We show that E∥X∥Sp≍E[(i∑(j∑Xij2)p/2)1/p] for any 2≤p≤∞, where Sp denotes the p-Schatten
class and the constants are universal. The right-hand side admits an explicit
expression in terms of the variances of the matrix entries. This settles, in
the case p=∞, a conjecture of the first author, and provides a complete
characterization of the class of infinite matrices with independent Gaussian
entries that define bounded operators on ℓ2. Along the way, we obtain
optimal dimension-free bounds on the moments (E∥X∥Spp)1/p
that are of independent interest. We develop further extensions to
non-symmetric matrices and to nonasymptotic moment and norm estimates for
matrices with non-Gaussian entries that arise, for example, in the study of
random graphs and in applied mathematics.Comment: 36 pages, 2 figure