In lieu of an abstract, below is the essay\u27s first paragraph.
She knew a man whose face was thin, with little hollows beneath the cheek bones. A little wrinkle near his ear, a little grey hair growing there, a little soft flesh: she imagined pressing her lips to it. Just a kiss. or maybe she would wrap her arms around him and hug him, lay her head on his chest. and maybe then a kiss, and maybe then, well, maybe then