In Indonesia, research on gender issues is rather challenging as it is still assumed as the way
people contrasting male-female and so far people believe in what happened in society is the best
way to do. Besides, gender perspective for Indonesian tends to be something unusual and
situated as an academic business only. Therefore, this research was established in order to give
an illustration about gender especially women‘s role and position in their family and society
which can be seen through their language expression, such as disagreement, happiness,
disappointment, etc. This research categorized as a qualitative descriptive where researcher
described the real situation after participatory observations completed by in-depth interview,
recording and documentation. Utterances, as the data of this research, are taken from of five
housewives in a village called Klopo Duwur, Blora. The data then analyzed based on referent
identity analysis correlated with the theory of personal attitude and language and gender. The
result showed that their language expressions were influenced by factor of education, economic,
age, and level of belief. Respondents understood their position in their family and community,
but they just follow the established social construction
