We perform a comprehensive analysis of the scattering of matter and
gravitational Kaluza-Klein (KK) modes in five-dimensional gravity theories. We
consider matter localized on a brane as well as in the bulk of the extra
dimension for scalars, fermions and vectors respectively, and consider an
arbitrary warped background. While naive power-counting suggests that there are
amplitudes which grow as fast as O(s3) [where s is the
center-of-mass scattering energy-squared], we demonstrate that cancellations
between the various contributions result in a total amplitude which grows no
faster than O(s). Extending previous work on the self-interactions of
the gravitational KK modes, we show that these cancellations occur due to
sum-rule relations between the couplings and the masses of the modes that can
be proven from the properties of the mode equations describing the gravity and
matter wavefunctions. We demonstrate that these properties are tied to the
underlying diffeomorphism invariance of the five-dimensional theory. We discuss
how our results generalize when the size of the extra dimension is stabilized
via the Goldberger-Wise mechanism. Our conclusions are of particular relevance
for freeze-out and freeze-in relic abundance calculations for dark matter
models including a spin-2 portal arising from an underlying five-dimensional
theory.Comment: 34 pages, 3 figures. Footnote added on page