La grafologia è una scienza che, prendendo in esame le caratteristiche
tecniche della scrittura a mano di un individuo, può ricostruirne la personalità e
tracciarne il ritratto psicologico. Essa è uno strumento particolarmente utile, perché non
soltanto è in grado di mettere in luce gli aspetti razionali del carattere di colui che scrive,
ma anche quelli più profondi e intimi di cui egli spesso non è consapevole. Per tale
motivo uno degli ambiti più interessanti in cui viene applicata la grafologia è quello della
grafologia comparata che, analizzando scritture appartenenti ad individui che hanno una
relazione di coppia, può rintracciare le motivazioni che hanno condotto a tale scelta e
comprenderne gli elementi di compatibilità e le reciproche modalità d’integrazione. =
Graphology is a science that, through the analysis of technical features of
people’s handwriting, can evaluate their personality and develop a psychological portrait.
It is a very useful tool to highlight aspects of the writers’ nature, not only their rational,
but also their inner and deep aspects, they are not always aware of. This is possible
because the expert graphologist examines handwriting by using circa 300 features and
their mutual interactions.
Among the many areas Graphology can be applied to, this paper will focus on a
graphological comparative study of partner handwritings, in order to understand their
compatibility and integration modalities. After observing the handwriting of both partners
and developing the individual portrait, the graphologist can consider the compatibility
level of their partnership, in order to point out what strong and weak elements shape a
couple’s relation. In fact sometimes after the phase of falling in love, when the intimacy
level grows and both partners show the way they are, it happens that they discover
they approach life with different behaviours or aims. These relationship modes can be
recognized in their handwriting through graphological techniques and it is possible to
help a couple cope with and integrate into their diversities.
For having a view as complete as possible and lighting up on a lot of features and
details that otherwise would be unknown, it is also necessary to attentively consider
the unconscious element which is involved in choosing partners. In a comparative
graphological analysis this can be clearly seen. In fact, partners in a rather unaware way,
sometimes choose one another in order to compose some inner conflict still unsolved.
In that case, their written texts will show how the integration modalities lay on this kind
of choice.
In this study, two kinds of these particular relationships, based on a complementary
bond, will be analyzed. The first one resembles a mother-child interaction, providing
comfort and protection to a partner by means of an unconditional love from the other
partner that does not want anything back. The second kind of relationship belongs to the
couples with a partner who looks for and somehow requests gratification or admiration
from the other person. Therefore, they will choose as a partner someone with an insecure
personality who can show abnegation in return.
This study will also provide examples of handwritten texts with appropriate notes in
order to explain some graphological practices, contents and describe what kind of bond
really connects partners.peer-reviewe
