The "dialogue of multipoles" matched asymptotic expansion for small black
holes in the presence of compact dimensions is extended to the Post-Newtonian
order for arbitrary dimensions. Divergences are identified and are regularized
through the matching constants, a method valid to all orders and known as
Hadamard's partie finie. It is closely related to "subtraction of
self-interaction" and shows similarities with the regularization of quantum
field theories. The black hole's mass and tension (and the "black hole
Archimedes effect") are obtained explicitly at this order, and a Newtonian
derivation for the leading term in the tension is demonstrated. Implications
for the phase diagram are analyzed, finding agreement with numerical results
and extrapolation shows hints for Sorkin's critical dimension - a dimension
where the transition turns second order.Comment: 28 pages, 5 figures. v2:published versio