While the seismic quality factor and phase lag are defined solely by the bulk
properties of the mantle, their tidal counterparts are determined both by the
bulk properties and self-gravitation of a body as a whole. For a qualitative
estimate, we model the body with a homogeneous sphere and express the tidal
phase lag through the lag in a sample of material. Although simplistic, our
model is sufficient to understand that the lags are not identical. The
difference emerges because self-gravitation pulls the tidal bulge down. At low
frequencies, this reduces strain and makes tidal damping less efficient in
larger bodies. At high frequencies, competition between self-gravitation and
rheology becomes more complex, though for sufficiently large superearths the
same rule works: the larger the body, the weaker tidal damping in it. Being
negligible for small terrestrial planets and moons, the difference between the
seismic and tidal lagging (and likewise between the seismic and tidal damping)
becomes very considerable for superearths. In those, it is much lower than what
one might expect from using a seismic quality factor. The tidal damping rate
deviates from the seismic damping rate especially in the zero-frequency limit,
and this difference takes place for bodies of any size. So the equal in
magnitude but opposite in sign tidal torques, exerted on one another by the
primary and the secondary, go smoothly through zero as the secondary crosses
the synchronous orbit. We describe the mantle rheology with the Andrade model,
allowing it to lean towards the Maxwell model at the lowest frequencies. To
implement this additional flexibility, we reformulate the Andrade model by
endowing it with a free parameter which is the ratio of the anelastic timescale
to the viscoelastic Maxwell time of the mantle. Some uncertainty in this
parameter's frequency-dependence does not influence our principal conclusions