We prove a simple, explicit formula for the mass of any asymptotically
locally Euclidean (ALE) K\"ahler manifold, assuming only the sort of weak
fall-off conditions required for the mass to actually be well-defined. For ALE
scalar-flat K\"ahler manifolds, the mass turns out to be a topological
invariant, depending only on the underlying smooth manifold, the first Chern
class of the complex structure, and the K\"ahler class of the metric. When the
metric is actually AE (asymptotically Euclidean), our formula not only implies
a positive mass theorem for K\"ahler metrics, but also yields a Penrose-type
inequality for the mass.Comment: 53 pages, minor corrections and improvements, final versio